Work With Me to Rebuild & Renew
What if your divorce was a symptom, and not the disease?
This is the question at the core of my work.
Divorce points at something deeper which is out of balance — something you’ve been carrying long before you met your ex. If ignored, it will continue to haunt you.
Divorce isn’t a knockout. It’s an awakening.
You might feel disoriented, sensing that something is “off” in every area of life. Uncertainty can leave you clinging to what’s familiar, fighting without a plan, blocking punches, bobbing and weaving, just trying to stay on your feet.
A defensive strategy alone won’t win the fight.
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Underneath, there’s a sense of loss and feeling lost
Like what got you here won’t get you there
You’re questioning everything — where here is, where there is. You feel a push to move forward, but your divorce has you second-guessing everything. It’s like navigating through a dull, heavy fog, unsure what’s real and what’s imagined.
What if the fog is an invitation to strip away what no longer serves you?
Now you’re ready to move on. Enough is enough. You’re ready to close this chapter and get to living grand new adventures.
What do you really need?
Maybe you’ve tried therapy or self-help books, but they only skim the surface. They help you cope, but not transform. Or you’ve dipped into traditional counselling, only to find it disconnected from the deeper emotional and spiritual shifts you’re facing after divorce.
You need a guide and support system who understands — someone who can help you tackle the emotional, spiritual, and practical sides of rebuilding. Someone who sees the whole picture and helps you create a life you, and your kids, can be proud of.
My coaching is a blend of practical steps with deep inner spiritual transformations. This is the approach I’ve found the most effective to set you up for lasting changes.

The Rebuild & Renew Program
Most men spend years stuck after divorce. It took me nearly a decade to find my footing.
Rebuild & Renew is a 6-month coaching program designed to get you moving. Together, we’ll create the next phase of your life. Through this process you will become the person who is ready, willing, and able to create an amazing life for yourself and your kids.
As your guide, I will walk you through:
- Direction. We will create a crystal clear vision for your new life and start executing on it
- Guidance. I will be side by side with you while you’re making the necessary changes
- Resistance. We’ll eliminate forces that hold you back
- Legacy. As you do the work, you’ll grow in wisdom — the most valuable gift you can pass to your kids
By the end of the six months, you’ll have a clear understanding of where you’re going and why. You’ll become the master of your own internal world; not a victim of your outer circumstances and you’ll have tools to handle future challenges.
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Testimonials
Wow, what a call I just had with Jeff
Jeff helped me identify that my next move on the money chessboard is neither High nor Low. It’s a Move that will get me closer to Victory.
Huge mindshift for me in becoming more at peace with myself. He has helped to open my eyes in recognising that I should not get too high with the highs in life and to recognize the lows as pure uppertunities to get back up and build momentum to my goals.
I’ve made a lot of extreme moves in life but now I will be more consistent persistent.
This program might be a good fit if…
- You’re in the aftermath of a divorce and you feel lost and overwhelmed, and desperate to understand what went wrong.
- You love your kids and are committed to shielding them from the pain of this ordeal as much as possible.
- You are open to doing the difficult inner work. You recognize that emotional resilience is crucial in difficult times.
- You feel stuck, as if life’s paused and you’re unsure how to restart, despite following all the “rules” before.
- Most importantly, you’re ready to close this chapter and embrace new adventures, refusing to let this situation dominate your life any longer.
This program might not be a good fit if…
- You can’t dedicate the necessary time; expect to invest 60-90 minutes bi-weekly for sessions, plus 2-3 hours weekly for field work.
- You’re after immediate results; this is about deep, gradual transformation resulting in lasting changes.
- You’re looking for an easy, passive solution. This isn’t a pill or a drink, where you put money in and request ‘one transformation please’. This program demands active engagement, curiosity, and the grit to face challenging introspections.
- Change frightens you, or you’re resistant to invest the time needed to dismantle old habits and embrace new perspectives.
If you’re not ready for this level of commitment, consider starting with my newsletter, podcasts, or videos, to learn about the work and perhaps in time, you’ll feel called to this work.
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STEP 1
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STEP 2
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STEP 3
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More Testimonials
Jeff helped me start feeling like my old self again. I realized that there’s nothing wrong with me, and that I can become the best version of myself, as long as I keep putting in the effort necessary to make that happen. Who we truly are always remains within us, we just lose sight of our Selves sometimes. Looking deep within myself revealed the path back to health.
I’m grateful to Jeff for his time and commitment to me, and I highly recommend that you speak with him. You won’t be disappointed.
My reactions to life’s events have also evolved significantly. Things have happened around me recently, instead of an emotional response to the issues. I process it, understand it, able to jump straight to solving issues with a clear mind. Although, emotion still come in waves. I’ve learned to channel them constructively, approaching them with logic and acceptance. It is not a suppression of an emotion, but an understanding and accepting them, acknowledging that life has its ups and downs, and that’s perfectly okay.
I’m now able to see things from a zoomed-out view. I can analyze situations from a broader perspective rather than only from my viewpoint. It helps me to sense different things in advance in the future and deepen understanding of human psychology in general.
Another insight is that understanding that there is a negative and positive for everything. Life itself is neutral. It’s our perceptions that often color it otherwise.
Hi, I’m Jeff Kolez
Leader, Explorer, Wayfinder
I’m Jeff, and I help divorced fathers create a post-divorce life they — and their kids — can be proud of.
Over 10 years ago, I went through a miserable divorce. I lost everything, fought in court, spent a fortune, and had an acrimonious relationship with my ex.
I didn’t want to end up an angry and bitter man who constantly complains about his divorce. If my divorce was going to define me, I wanted that definition to be positive. And so I started a journey of self-improvement — not just for myself — but also for my kids.
Over time I realized it wasn’t me versus my ex, or the courts. Rather it was me versus myself.
Today I live an exciting life, full of love, authenticity, wisdom, and adventure.
Now, I’m here to help fathers build their own amazing post-divorce life.
Read more of my story.
