Meet Jeff
I built a career in tech, mastering systems but failing to master myself. Life felt hollow. I drifted—reacting instead of leading—until divorce forced me to wake up.
I couldn’t logic my way out of pain. I had to face it. That choice changed everything.
I stripped away the patterns that kept me stuck and rebuilt from the ground up, studying with mentors like Lise Janelle, Genya Klaiman, and Caroline Dupont, and diving deep into the work of John Demartini, Joe Dispenza, and Adyashanti.
Now, I help divorced men do the same—cut through the noise, reclaim their power, and build a life that’s real.
My reactions to life’s events have also evolved significantly. Things have happened around me recently, instead of an emotional response to the issues. I process it, understand it, able to jump straight to solving issues with a clear mind. Although, emotion still come in waves. I’ve learned to channel them constructively, approaching them with logic and acceptance. It is not a suppression of an emotion, but an understanding and accepting them, acknowledging that life has its ups and downs, and that’s perfectly okay.
I’m now able to see things from a zoomed-out view. I can analyze situations from a broader perspective rather than only from my viewpoint. It helps me to sense different things in advance in the future and deepen understanding of human psychology in general.
Another insight is that understanding that there is a negative and positive for everything. Life itself is neutral. It’s our perceptions that often color it otherwise.
Lastly, understanding how been in touch with nature can be tremendously empowering. The fact that when I walk into the woods, the breath of fresh air, the birds chipping is extremely relaxing. It put myself back into center, able to think clearly for the next move, and ideas come to my mind more frequently.